Forgive Yourself First — A Message for Men (and Anyone Healing)
Hi angels 🕊️
Your message began as an energetic cleansing — clearing projections, other people’s voices, and the subtle ways we carry opinions that aren’t actually ours — and unfolded into a deeper conversation about purpose, self-expression, masculinity, safety, and forgiveness.
This reading is especially resonant for men, but it’s not exclusive. Anyone who has felt flattened, silenced, unsure of their purpose, or weighed down by shame will find something here.
~ 🧹 Clearing what isn’t yours 🛡️ Reclaiming your own voice 🕊️ Forgiveness as strength, not avoidance ~
We talk about:
• Visualisation and consciously choosing the path you want to walk
• Why purpose gets tangled up with worth — especially for men
• How self-expression gets punished, mocked, or shut down early in life
• The difference between responsibility and carrying the whole world
• Why forgiveness starts with yourself — and doesn’t have to be rushed
• Safety, boundaries, and who you keep around you
• Letting change be slow, human, and real
This isn’t about doing everything perfectly or fixing society overnight. It’s about noticing where you do have agency — and being kind to yourself while you learn how to use it.
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Disclaimer: readings are provided for entertainment and personal insight purposes. Readings are not predictions of the future. This is not medical, financial or legal advice. Always use discernment to feel intuitively if the message resonates with you, leave it behind if you're trying to make it fit your situation for too long.
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Take what resonates, leave the rest.
Trust what feels right in your heart.
You’re not behind. You’re right on time.
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